Today's version or definition of boudoir has taken on a slightly different meaning. It now encompasses the art of sedutiveness for loved ones to view privately in a book or large album before the wedding , Valentines day, birthdays or Christmas. Others use it as a self esteem builder/confidence builder and it works quite well.
It is meant to be sexy, sultry and enticing, not degrading. Enjoy being yourself and escape for a time being to be pampered and relax.